表哥花四十萬買房，還是付首付，卻要他父母拿出三十萬塊錢！


表哥花四十萬買房，還是付首付，卻要他父母拿出三十萬塊錢！





表哥比我大一歲，比我早一年結婚，比我早一年有孩子，跟我在同一座城市工作，平時經常有來往。我舅舅舅媽都是農民，靠種地打工供完了表哥的學業，表哥學的是美術，對於一個農民家庭，花銷還是很大的。他們家前些年就蓋了六間新房，可是等表哥想結婚時卻壓根用不上了，現在像我們這樣的年輕人，在市里工作，回家住著也不現實啊！可現實又是，很多家庭買不起城裡的房子。可表嫂家提的要求就是得在他們倆工作的城市買房，我們工作的城市是一線城市！舅舅舅媽根本買不起！



但他們還是先結婚了，這些年一直租房住著，自打前年表哥表嫂的孩子出生，表嫂就開始催促我舅舅舅媽掏錢買房子。每次碰見表嫂，她都跟我訴苦一番，其實我也能夠理解她，因為我和我老公的生活現狀和他們差不多，我如今也有了孩子，感同身受吧！可是反過來說，舅舅家沒錢有啥法兒？有一次還聽說因為這事舅媽和表嫂倆人吵了一架，本來因為孩子的事，孩子現在一直由舅媽帶著，表嫂爸媽是根本不會幫忙管孩子，他們認為婆婆替兒媳婦照顧孩子就是應當應分的事。




但因為舅媽疏忽，孩子手被門縫夾了，結果表嫂氣得和舅媽吵了起來，從孩子的事吵到房子的事兒，表嫂說：再不買房，還不如離婚算了！之後，表嫂一家就天天逼著舅舅家拿錢買房子，今年初，跟表嫂聊天，表嫂特別高興的對我說：我們買房了，你們怎麼還不買房啊……我很是驚訝，因為按他們的條件根本買不起啊！沒過幾天，我媽又給我打電話說：你舅媽跟咱家借錢來著，說是你表哥打算買房了，他們小兩口手裡有十萬塊錢，可付首付還差三十萬，逼著你舅舅舅媽掏這三十萬塊錢！——他們哪兒有啊？這孩子也真是的，一點都不知道心疼爸媽，你表嫂怎麼這樣啊！你舅媽都在電話裡哭了……




我心想也是這麼個理兒，年輕人沒房又怎麼了？不會靠自己努力去爭取嗎？父母為我們辛苦了一輩子，到頭來五六十歲還得打工，甚至為了給孩子買一個房子還得低三下四跟別人借錢去……到頭來還傷了感情，日子過得越來越緊巴，圖什麼啊？我話鋒一轉，對我媽說：可不是唄！媽，這回你不就明白了嘛，我和你姑爺也就是這麼想的，所以才沒急著買房。可我媽馬上就說：那可不行，我得為了你們的日子著想啊，我不能看著我閨女孩子都有了還沒房住啊！



過兩天我也得給你公公婆婆打電話，催催他們，趕緊給你們買房！我瞬間無語了，對眼下的這個時代，對人們的這些想法，到底該怎麼理解呢……










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