這2個習慣就算再壞，也應該要慣著孩子，讓孩子繼續“壞”下去！


這2個習慣就算再壞，也應該要慣著孩子，讓孩子繼續“壞”下去！




大家好，我是小寶貝媽媽經小編Uber！今天要來說說關於「這2個習慣就算再壞，也應該要慣著孩子，讓孩子繼續“壞”下去！」的事！不知道大家對於這個有多了解呢？一起來看看吧！



我們在生活中，總會有一些地方看孩子不順眼，輕則吼罵，重則對孩子打罰，這些在我們生活中還是比較常見的，前者相對來說會比較多。我們最喜歡做的就是把一些好的行為習慣強加給孩子，孩子身上萬一有什麼缺點的話，就讓孩子摒棄掉，想培養一個優秀的孩子可沒有這麼容易。




1.別把屬於孩子的玩具送人



我去親戚朋友家裡玩的時候，經常能夠看到這樣的一幕。就是前段時間我有去表姐家裡玩，正巧遇到她的幾個朋友也過來串門，還帶著幾個孩子。我表姐就讓表侄子領著這群小孩子去玩他的玩具，當要走的時候，有一個看起來5~6歲的孩子，拿著侄子的玩具遲遲不願意撒手，跟這個孩子怎麼說也不管用。
後來，表姐直接做一個順手人情，讓侄子把玩具給這個小朋友，並且還告訴侄子：“你看，你是一個當哥哥的人，我們年級比較大，要讓著弟弟，你說對不對？”侄子一臉不願意，馬上跑回自己的房間痛哭，這個行為讓表姐和那個5、6歲孩子的家長面子掛不住了，等客人走後，表姐就在門口一直指責侄子，說她不懂事。




真的是侄子不懂事嗎？並不是的，孩子不是不懂事，也不是自私，因為他已經有了物權意識，他知道這個東西是屬於他的。我們常常教育孩子，別人的東西，在沒有經過別人的同意下，是不可以動的。那麼，試問為什麼有那麼多家長在沒有經歷過孩子的同意下，強行把屬於孩子的玩具給別人呢？無非就是為了面子。有人就要說了，這是我給孩子買的玩具，我對這個玩具有佔有權。沒錯，玩具是你買的，但是從你交到孩子手裡的那一刻，已經屬於孩子的了。




2.孩子總是一個人對著自言自語



有一個小女孩已經3歲了，整天對著一個毛絨玩具說話，平時呢也不怎麼和家人交流，後面去醫院檢查，發現孩子並沒有什麼問題，只是相對來說比同齡人內向。後來發現，原來是孩子的家長喜歡吼孩子，孩子在犯錯以後經常對孩子指責。有的時候，孩子犯錯了，主動告訴家長，而等待她的，只是一頓責罵，就這樣，孩子變得很孤僻，上幼兒園的時候也不怎麼喜歡和別人說話，最喜歡的就是一個人乖乖坐著。




對於這樣的孩子，首先我們不要阻止孩子自言自語的行為，這有助於孩子語言能力的提升，然後就是家長要控制一下自己的情緒，不要隨意對孩子進行辱罵。



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